need advice !!

[kb7722]

1) Don't go to the internet for advise

2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.

It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.

[fullrutt]

Originally Posted by kb7722

1) Don't go to the internet for advise

2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.

It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.

I agree with this... But if I was you, you better go to the Doc and get check and make sure she didn't give you anything in return.. Sounds like she has been mushroom head jumping pretty good


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[mriguy]

Run don't walk

[bobo23]

Seriously dude, GTFO!

[tboy]

Run until winded. Drink powerade. Run further. Repeat.

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[FF_T_Warren]

Your a real stand up guy I can tell by the way you don't want to abandon her in a time of need and emotions. But let me tell you, your stand up guy attitude and caring heart are going to get you in a whole whirlwind of crap that you don't deserve nor do you want part in. If you stay with her your gonna bring a ton of crap on yourself for the majority of your life and you've only got one to live. Better make the best of it and not bring undue troubles on yourself. An if it's the young girl aspect that you like, don't worry plenty of them out there that want to date older guys. Not that you fall into the "older" category but you catch my drift

[Andy C]

Originally Posted by FF_T_Warren

Your a real stand up guy I can tell by the way you don't want to abandon her in a time of need and emotions. But let me tell you, your stand up guy attitude and caring heart are going to get you in a whole whirlwind of crap that you don't deserve nor do you want part in. If you stay with her your gonna bring a ton of crap on yourself for the majority of your life and you've only got one to live. Better make the best of it and not bring undue troubles on yourself. An if it's the young girl aspect that you like, don't worry plenty of them out there that want to date older guys. Not that you fall into the "older" category but you catch my drift

has nothing to do with age for me.
It Just happened we new each other and it worked out! But no I am not ready to have a kid,and for sure one that's not mine!!

[Andy C]

Guys yes this is a real post!!! And yes I made my mind up before I posted it. Just wanted some other thoughts or experienceies. With it before i told her!! No I do not take internet advice. But there was some good post as to just say good by bittttccch !!! I know it's not an easy question for anyone to answer. I will keep yall posted on what happens. Thanks.

[Andy C]

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

[fullrutt]

Originally Posted by Andy C

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

Lol


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[Goooh]

Originally Posted by Andy C

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

I don't know man, some dude left a potent oil slick in that 2 pay periods before you. And that's the only time you know about because she got pregnant.

3 months ain't enough time to know anything about anyone.

[MathGeek]

If you are tempted to change your mind and give thought to staying with the pregnant young lady, I recommend you seek advice from your mom, your dad, your uncles, and any grandparents.

[Salty]

Originally Posted by MathGeek

If you are tempted to change your mind and give thought to staying with the pregnant young lady, I recommend you seek advice from your mom, your dad, your uncles, and any grandparents.

This...and not on the internet.

[Nickt87]

She's 4 months prego and you've been with her for 3 months and the baby's not yours. Simple math says she prolly had you laying your head on her pillow before the last guys imprint even had time to get cold. Not sayin shes a skeez, but damn.

Give her a gift card to baby gap, tell her congrats, and hit the road....FAST!

If not, you'll be setting yourself up for 100000000xs the trouble, heartache, and drama then the little bit you'll have to deal with right now.

[MathGeek]

But if you're gonna cut her loose, then cut her loose. It ain't right shopliftin' the pooty if you are not going to hang around.

[Andy C]

I know I know!!! All good points, and I have talked to them, and got there opinions, and half I just can't agree with, is way I was asking here. To get real world advice !!

[dave]

put as much distance between the two of you as possible. anything less than that, and well... its an issue that will always be in the back of your mind if you stay. bad health and terrible times are sure to follow

[Bdub]

Truth is she knew she was preggo and just never told you, doubt she went 4 months without knowing...probably didn't want to face it...GTFO while you can!

[lsufish]

You can't be serious. This is obviously a horrible idea to even consider.

Unless you have out kicked your coverage, and she was way hotter than any woman you are typically with.

If that's the case, I say let it ride and disregard my previous statements.