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Originally Posted by SaltERedneck
thats harsh to say Ray... some parents do not have a choice in the matter that they will not have another to help them with raising a child. Your definition of a "child" AKA parent is unclear to me. Are you refering to a certain age group in this case or is this a general statement saying "all single parents abuse their children?" I find it hard to say that child rearing as a single parent is a form of abuse.... please clarify
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Dad's wife has a grandson with not 1 but 3 out of wedlock children being raised in very deplorable conditions. It is simple Math, those that can have children BREED INDICRIMINATLEY and those that can't would love to give those children a good home. Their selfishness and lack of brain power will not let them do the right thing. If you can't feedem don't breedem is my motto. Dragging kids from pillar to post is never a quality lifestyle, they need two parents. 14-21 yr old single girls can't possibly take care of a baby without their parents or govt's help. These children will continue the cycle of dependence and more than likely repeat the same mistakes. Children in single parent households also have a higher rate of poverty than two parent households.
Are there success stories?, You bet but not as many as horror stories.
Illigitimacy for whites is approaching 50% and blacks it is 70%, ask any cop where the most calls come from. It is mainly from the impoverished parts of town black and white.
Government tore the family unit apart with the "Great Society" programs of the 1960's. It is no longer a stigma to be a single unwed mother, you can't make judgement calls on peoples lifestyle even if historically they are wrong for the children.
I applaud those who work their butts off for what they have, my mother in law raised two kids working as a bank teller in the 70's. Peanut butter was T-bone steak to them. 22's,60" plasmas,coach bags, are what people aspire to these days instead of living an honest and humble life when they should be about the Gold...............en Rule.